Answer:
Autonomy-connection
Explanation:
The autonomy-connection dialectic refers to the contradiction between the desire for the freedom to be independent and the freedom to be dependent. In other words, it is a measure of the interdependence in a relationship.
In this example, Lisa wants to spend time alone (and be independent as an individual) but she also feels the need to share experiences with Bob (be dependent), thus, the main dialectic is being independent vs. being dependent and thus this is an example of the autonomy-connection dialectic.